It was narrated from ‘Uqbah ibn ‘Aamir al-Juhani that a group of people came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and he accepted the allegiance of nine and refrained from accepting the allegiance of one. They said: “O Messenger of Allaah, you accepted the allegiance of nine and not this one.” He said: “He is wearing an amulet.” He put his hand in and took it off, then he accepted his allegiance, and said: “Whoever uses an amulet has committed shirk (has associated partners with Allaah).” Narrated by Ahmad, 16969. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 492
Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah has listed ten things we waste. Take a look and see how right he is. (May Allah ta’ala bless his soul )
1. Our Knowledge .
Wasted by not taking action with it.
2. Our Actions:
Wasted by committing them without sincerity.
3. Our Wealth:
Wasted by using on things that will not bring us ajr. We waste our money, our status, our authority, on things which have no benefit in this life or in akhirah.
4. Our Hearts:
Wasted because they are empty from the love of Allah, and the feeling of longing to go to Him, and a feeling of peace and contentment. In it’s place, our hearts are filled with something or someone else.
5. Our Bodies:
Wasted because we don’t use them in ibadah and service ofAllah.
6. Our Love:
Our emotional love is misdirected, not towards Allah but towards something/someone else.
7. Our Time:
Wasted, not used properly, to compensate for that which had passed, by doing what is righteous to make up for past deeds.
8. Our Intellect:
Wasted on things that are not beneficial, that are detremental to society and the individual, not in contemplation or reflection.
9. Our Service:
Wasted in service of someone who will not bring us closer to Allah, or benefit in dunyaa.
10. Our Dhikr:
Wasted, because it does not effect us or our hearts.
Rather than let the doom and gloom bring you down, focus on the positive. Life’s simple pleasures which we take for granted. Little things like .. .. .. .. .. .. ..
- finding forgotten money in a pocket
- the joy of free refills at a restaurants
- being able to fix a faulty electronic equipment with a smack.
- When u stay somewhere with a really good shower
- When your pet notices your in a bad mood and comes to see you
- when a friend returns something borrowed so long ago you forgot you owned it
- when you push the button for the elevator and its already there
- getting something handwritten in the mail
- packing a picnic and heading off for some outdoor action without paying a dime
- when you pull up to red light and the guy infront of you nudges up a bit so you can make a right turn.
- leaving a comment on someones blog
- getting a comment
My dear Brothers and Sisters,
The Holy Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him & his progeny) said:
1) Four things that make the body sick:
a) Excessive talk
b) Excessive sleep
c) Excessive eating and
d) Excessive sex.
2) Four things that destroys the body:
b) Sorrow (Sadness/Grief)
d) Staying up late (in the night)
3) Four things that dry the face & take away its happiness:
b) Being disrespectful / impudent (insisting on something wrong knowingly)
c) Arguing without knowledge
d) Excessive immorality (doing something wrong without fear)
4) Four things that increases the wetness of face & its happiness:
c) Generosity (being kind)
d) To be helpful to others without he/she asking for that.
5) Four things that stop the Rizq (Sustenance)
a) Sleeping in the morning (from Fajr to Sunrise – an hour before and after sunrise)
b) Praying less
c) Laziness / Idleness
d) Treachery / Dishonesty
6) Four things that bring / increase the Rizq (Sustenance).
a) Staying up in the night for prayers. (Getting up in mid or late night for prayers)
b) Excessive Repentance
c) Regular Charity
d) Remembrance of Allah.
The Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him & his progeny) also said to communicate to others even if you listen one Verse (Ayah) & this one verse will stand on the day of Judgment for intercession.
Feel free to cut and paste the above to your brothers and sisters so that they too and you as well may benefit from these verses, inshallah.
Jazak Allah Khairan
we have two gorgeous cats in the house, one black stray throws his weight in our courtyard and one tabby the persistent Spike aka Laddoo, has adopted our garage !! Thats four cats in all. Of all the villas in the community, this little injured birdie had to find a spot to nurse her injuries in our garage ! If only Spike was not as lazy as garfield !!
The boys found Tweety close to the shoe stand, where upon, I noticed one of her legs was pulled back ~ probably hit something like a wall or branch. She was’nt moving but she seemed to be in shock. I managed to feed her some water and Keeping her in the house for a while meant all the cats were locked up away from her. We were nearly ready to leave for all the Saturday outdoor chores when this episode started, still Sam suggested we show tweety over to the wet, which was a good, 25 kms away from our original destination. Who would’ave thought we’d spend so much time and travel to get little tweety to some medical help. But I am so glad I did !
An hour later, we placed her in the 2 kg yoghurt tub and took her over to Al Barsha Clinic for pets.
To my amazement, when I handed the bucket to the nurse which she took so reluctantly, this little fiesty birdie actually took flight. The nurses examined her and said she was probably hit, under shock, took some time to recover and is ready to fly back home.
10 Minutes later, we placed her on the branch in front of Al Mawakeb school. She did’nt fly away immediately. Probably examining the sourrounding, infact she just sat there for what seemed eternity !!! In my mind, she was saying “thank you” as she sat there, long after we had left. She had been spared one good, solid day of life !
A day to celebrate her freedom … a day to rejoice her life .. a day to having come so close to the claws of a young but lazy cat called spike aka laddoo .. .. .. ..
Nature has provided strength to every living thing, be it the ants, earthworm, fish or the elephant .. we all struggle for our survival. The Almighty had placed strength in that little bird too, strength to rest, recooperate and gather more strength and then fly back.
Being a mother means to forever let your heart live outside your body (within your child).
A child’s hurt is a mother’s trauma. She bears the pain even if it is not apparent on her face. My mother too is feeling terribly hopeless and helpless with my recent predictament. Cancer in the family cannot just be an ordeal but a test of faith. Sam and I look at this phase in our lives as a test of our faith. We are blessed in every way with happiness, comfort and respect. What more can one ask for !
I have found myself consoling more people who react in a very restless way often searching for a reason to blame the matter on someone or something, when they have been informed about my state ( Human Nature). I wish there was something better I could tell them all. But I tell them to pray for my husband, his operation and his speedy recovery.
My faith in Allah has been strong always but perhaps stronger now. I believe the cancer will spare us, it is a way for us to understand and make changes in our lifestyle. We needed a very hard jolt and nothing compares to the word “Cancer”
For the first time, today, Sam went for a walk in the morning after Fajr. If you know Sam, you know that “that” Was an impossible task in his agenda ! But he is making changes. I am making changes. For the last few months, I have switched to packing salads for him for lunch. He has lost weigth although not considerable amount but still, it is a begining.
Last night mom called up for the nth time this week and sounded very lost. Perhaps becoz I finally told her that Sam’s tumor is malignant. She feels she is already loosing Sam … Indians are people full of opinions .. Some doctor who has not even seen sam’s CT report advised her that the cancer would spread all over so that I should get him over to India to have him operated immediately.
I wrote back to her in the night, explaining briefly how she should remain strong for us. Without sounding rude, I somehow managed to bring some humor into my letter and let her understand how much I counted on Allah and her spiritual support.
This is my letter to Mom.
Hope u read my sms last night and left all your worries in Allah swt’s lap.
Although I thought my operation would be like all the others before, I have realized one thing, that I tire easily. It takes alot of effort to get things done now. Even small things like washing dishes, cooking etc. Who knows, maybe it is the effect of the operation. Afterall I am not growing any younger either.
Leave all that, here is my latest neck picture. Dont worry about the scar, it is an asthetic glue stitich so that It will sit in line with the crease on my neck. It wont be apparent after some months. Right now I am enjoying pulling out the dead skin from my stitch area … yummy !!!
If you compare my before op pic to the one now, you’ll be surprised to notice that the neck area is more swollen now than before the operation. But i think its all only the swelling. It will subside eventually.
Mom, Worry is a negative feeling. We should not worry about tomorrow. We should only live happily and completly today. Today is what matters, tomorrow has already been decided by fate. So a well-lived today will make all the difference in Life.
“Allaah burdens not a person beyond his scope” [al-Baqarah 2:286]
Allah swt does not give anyone of us, more weight than what we can carry. And He has chosen me to carry a slightly larger weight right now and what matters right now is what this quote says :
It’s not the load that breaks you down; it’s the way you carry it. Lena Horne
I am grateful to Allah Swt for all the blessings he bestowed upon me for all these years. I have a wonderful husband, 3 fantastic boys, a good home and happiness and respect all around me. If the road ahead is going to be bumpy, I should not forget how smooth the road has been so far. Remember FootPrints ?? I know if the road is going to be bumpy, Allah swt will carry me IN HIS ARMS Thru it. Thats my aqeedah. He is with me, Sam and our boys. Inshallah, everything will be alright. Its just a stepping stone not a boulder in the path.
Keep your spirit strong, it hurts to hear you cry on the phone and it does break me down too. So keep your spirit high. I know its difficult for you coz you are my mother and I know, everyday, I thank Allah swt that this is all happening to us and not to anyone of my boys, becoz then I would NEVER be able to tolerate it.
So it must be hard on you too. But Prayers are the best healers. A mothers’ prayer is a powerful tool. Use it wisely for Sam.
Thanks for reading my mail.