A women . . . . .

Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.

If you give her sperm, she’ll give you a baby.

If you give her a house, she’ll give you a home.

 If you give her groceries, she’ll give you a meal.

 If you give her a smile, she’ll give you her heart.

 She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.

 So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of s*&t.”

 

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Women in Islam.

“When she is a DAUGHTER, she opens a door of jannah for her father
When she is a WIFE, she completes half of the Deen of her husband
When she is a MOTHER, Jannah lies under her feet”

‘If everyone knew the true status of a Muslim women in Islam, even the men would want to be women” (Shaykh Akram Nadawi)

How blessed are we women in Islam that Allah swt has placed us at such a high pedestal where we bless our fathers, our husbands and our children with the rewards of Jannah just by being dutiful and chaste. Yet, how sadly misunderstood is the concept of women in Islam for the rest of the ignorant ~ media hungry world.  The western media has depicted us in such an awfully oppressed light. If only they would stop being so biased and understand that every pearl is valued so long as it is treasured in its shell/oyster.  Hence the sad state of those cultured pearls that go from hand to hand and still are unable to make its possessor feel special.

May Allah swt give us all the hidayat that we may do complete justice to the role we are in, be it that of a mother, sister, daughter or wife and even more importantly that we bring up our daughters in the beautiful light of Islam and how a muslimah conducts herself. Ameen.

 

Are you a WINNER or a LOSER ?

Personally I dont like the term “Loser “. Its a heavily loaded term full of negativeity. I doubt any one likes to be teased as being a loser. Although I understand from my own kids that its one of the “in” terms to use, when teasing or naming someone you dont particularly like.

Here is something I came across in my inbox, but by no means is this some sorta standard bench mark about losers, however, it does show how one could improve ones attitude and fall on the other side of the court.

  •           The Winner is always part of the answer;
  •            The Loser is always part of the problem.
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    • ♦ The Winner always has a program;
    • The Loser always has an excuse.
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    • ♦ The Winner says, “Let me do it for you”;
    • The Loser says, “That is not my job.”
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    • ♦ The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
    • The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
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    • ♦ The Winner says, ” It may be difficult but it is possible”;
    • The Loser says, “It may be possible but i t is too difficult.”
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    • ♦ When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”;
    • When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”
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    • ♦ A Winner makes commitments;
    • A Loser makes promises.
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    • ♦ Winners have dreams;
    • Losers have schemes.
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    • ♦ Winners say, “I must do something”;
    • Losers say, “Something must be done.”
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    • ♦ Winners are a part of the team;
    • Losers are apart from the team.
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    • ♦ Winners see the gain;
    • Losers see the pain.
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    • ♦ Winners see possibilities;
    • Losers see problems.
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    • ♦ Winners believe in win-win;
    • Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
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    • ♦ Winners see the potential;
    • Losers see the past.
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    • ♦ Winners are like a thermostat;
    • Losers are like thermometers.
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    • ♦ Winners choose what they say;
    • Losers say what they choose.
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    • ♦ Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
    • Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
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    • ♦ Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
    • Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
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    • ♦ Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;
    • Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you .”
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    • ♦ Winners make it happen;
    • Losers let it happen.
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    • ♦ Winners plan and prepare to win.
    • The key word is preparation.