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I hear sisters who don’t wear hijab, but feel they are better than the sisters who do wear hijab, but with make up, tight clothes, hair showing etc ~ to them I say, follow what your Allah has ordered you to do first. Dress how he has asked you to, cover your aura how he has instructed you, and leave the judging to Him, for HE alone, has the right to judge anyone. Do not use this cause, as an excuse so as not to embrace a part of the muslimah’s identity.
Remember, shaitaan lurks around every muslimah ever so zestfully … His ultimate goal is to lure her into sin. The graver the sin, the more the reward for him.
For sisters, who wish to embrace the hijab but have been fighting their own little battle between, pleasing the world and pleasing Allah ~ encourage them. May they find peace in the path chosen by Allah for them. Ameen
For sisters, who are drifting (just like the sister in the below video) ~ make dua, lots of dua, that Allah swt makes her nafs stronger than the whispers of the wretched shaitaan.
It was in the blessed month of Ramadhan, that the Quran was revealed to Prophet Mohammed. (Peace and blessings be upon him)
The first word uttered was ” Iqra ” ~ meaning “READ” or RECITE.
Read: to understand the meaning of written symbols
Recite: to verbally repeat from memory (read aloud)
Muslims, young and old, have been encouraged to seek knowledge ~ to broaden their horizons with reference to this beautiful deen of Islam.
Sadly, muslims, are too preoccupied in hoarding worldly knowledge so as to attain higher degrees in science, maths and engineering, so as to attain better salaries and fulfill their worldly desires ~ while totally neglecting to seek knowledge of the one book, that will eventually, be the ONLY source of “respite” and intervention for him/her in his/her grave !!!!
Because, parents have been idly following traditions, they prefer their offspring to continue doing so. The Asian upbringing is not the best, to say the least. We demand our children, not question, any traditional values ~ Centuries of misinformed people, who never once tried to “understand” and “apply” what the Quran preached ~ what the hadiths enlightened us with, never reached so many more of us. We have been swimming in a tide of bidaah and we fiercely support them !! We are a naïve lot and what’s worse is that we are an arrogant lot, at that .
The one who guides us to the righteous path, has to be lamented, his motives, questioned and his image, tarnished.
This is how low we have stooped. We, the ummah of Rasool Allah, sallallahi wa sallam 😦
Here is an example of a ‘top notch’ bidaah.
23 rakaahs of Taraveeh in 7 minutes !!!!!!
Now that we are aware of how the situation is over there, Can I request ANY aalim in this country/state/city to please reach out to our brothers and sisters and guide them in the right ways. I am sure, these people have good intentions but have NEVER researched their own religion. Instead they have accepted age-old traditional practices.
May Allah swt give them hidayah and guidance. Ameen
The advert said, ‘designed for comfort and safety of your precious little one’
Six months later, mom asked,
but where would the baby bag go ?
but where would little johnny’s rattle go, his bottle go, his bibs go, his pacifier, his teddy, his cap, his socks go ?
and his bag of toys ?
and where would the gift box for Anna’s party go ?
and what about the laptop, spare sandals, grocery bags, baby blanket, and what not !!
A year later …….
Introducing the efficient way to carry it all !! minus the baby 🙂
Just to clarify, We have three children, and our strollers, were homes on wheels to our boys, only when they slept 🙂 The rest of the time, they were used for carrying just about everything under the sky 🙂
Either I’m living in a very confused time or there are a whole lot of confused women, swarming around in the malls dressed as a hybrid between, wanting to please their parents and wanting to go on a date !!
Tight clothing, hijab and muslim women (in public) ~ just don’t go hand in hand. PERIOD !! (Ofcourse, You are totally at liberty to wear anything at home)
However, this generally happens, when women/girls either don’t know
- Why they wear hijab
- what is real hijab or
- when they are trying to please ‘themselves’ while keeping Allah swt, somewhere in the picture.
Well sisters, I got some REAL news for you !! Who do you think your kiddin ??? Surely, not the one who already has your intentions listed out. I totally respect the parents for guiding these children towards hijab but I fail to understand, why parents don’t explain the importance behind the hijab.
Unfortunately, the media has symbolized hijab as a piece of cloth, worn to cover the hair. However, Hijab is far greater than just a piece of cloth. There are several aspects of Hijaab ~ the first one being the intention and the next being humility, hijab of the eyes, hijab of how one speaks, hijab of how one walks, and so on so forth.
In a race to be accepted and appreciated by western society, our girls have drifted towards the aesthetic values of hijab rather than the true meaning of humility. Clearly some of the requirements of Islamic clothing for the muslimah is that her dress, not be transparent, too tight so as to reveal her figure and also not something that can be associated with men’s clothing.
I watch in disappointment, while young oblivious muslimah girls prance around in flocks in their shockingly appealing shirts, tight jeans and tall sandals with colorful bling studded mobiles but ofcourse, donning a contrasting scarf to go with it. One doesn’t have to be a genius to figure out the chaos running in those tender brains !
For sisters, who are new to Islam, please take your time. Don’t be in a rush to adopt the hijab. Kindly study the religion before you embrace the dress code. Allah swt has bought open your hearts to this beautiful religion, surely he will make you see hijab as an extension of yourselves. It will become a part of your personality very soon. inshallah.
Quite honestly, it is something that comes so naturally to us, once we get accustomed to it and it is surely, not there to make tasks, difficult for us women. Allah swt would never enforce something difficult for us to bear. He has made deen so simple for us to practise and he has kept women, so well protected, provided we live within our simple deeni boundaries.
May Allah swt protect our ummah and make us stronger and bring us closer together ameen.
We have already entered the fair (events) season, with the first one being the Arabian Ranches Market Day which was held on the last Friday of October. I was participating in the popular Arabian Ranches Market Day, last year, but this year, my schedule was too tight with the inlaws visiting us from Saudi and all the transformations I am working on at home presently.
As always the Market Day was excellently organized. We spend a lovely afternoon finding some amazing stuff and enjoying all the activities organized. Not only did we have over 100 stalls selling clothes, shoes, decoration items, cds, electronics, toys, books, games, furniture and heaps of many more things, but we also had stalls for games, face painting, rodeo rides and ofcourse tons of more activities. I managed to click a few lovely photos which I am sharing here. As a community, Arabian Ranches, always amazes me with friendly and mostly helpful residents.
Needless to say, I bought myself a heap of lovely stuff from the table top sales !
Assalam Alai kum Brothers and sisters. I hope all of you have been safe and in good health, where ever you stay.
My husband, samie send this mail which had these, really thought provoking one liners. Some of them really had me thinking. Infact, retrospecting. Please feel free to use them in your daily lives. Infact, It would be a great idea to use them on plaques etc. However please remember, anything which has Allah’s name should handled with care.
Here they are. Please tell me which you liked the most. ( number wise )
|1. Give Allah what’s right, not what’s left.2. Man’s way leads to a hopeless end. Allah’s way leads to an endless hope.
3. A lot of kneeling will keep you in good standing.
4. He who kneels before Allah can stand before anyone.
5. In the sentence of life, the devil may be a comma, but never let him be the full stop.
6. Don’t put a question mark where Allah puts a full stop.
7. Are you wrinkled with burden? Come to the mosque for a face lift.
8. When praying, don’t give Allah instructions, just report for duty.
9. Don’t wait for six strong men to take you to the mosque.
10. We don’t change Allah’s message. His message changes us.
11. The mosque is prayer-conditioned.
12. When Allah ordains, He sustains.
13. Warning: Exposure to Allah may prevent burning.
14. Plan ahead. It wasn’t raining when Noah(Alaihi salaam) built the ark.
15. Most people want to serve Allah, but only in an advisory position.
16. Suffering from truth decay? Brush up on your Qur’an>an. r>
18. Never give the devil a ride. He will always want to drive.
19. Nothing else ruins the truth like stretching it.
20. Compassion is difficult to give away because it keeps coming back.
21. He who angers you, controls you.
22. Worry is the darkroom in which negatives are developed.
23. Give Satan an inch and he will be a ruler.
24. Allah doesn’t call the qualified. He qualifies the called.
25. Read the Qur’an. It will scare the hell out of you.
May 11 1999 My oldest son, Bilal was born, May 10 2002, exactly 3 years later, my youngest and third son, Eman was born. Now for those of you with kids placed so closely in birth dates, I dont exactly know how you go around making them feel special ! Well, in a way, I’m saved from all those complications coz we dont celebrate birthdays, well atleast not in the traditional way carried out, all over the world ~ Cake, song, birthday bumbs and whats worse is this new ‘thing” about smashing chunks of cake over the birthday persons face, clothes etc, which is not only disgusting but also being ungrateful to the food and the many bounties of the Almighty (cake in this case).
When the kids were smaller, I would send some goody bags with them to school for their classmates and take them out for a “MOVIE” which we generally watch only on special occasions or visit their favorite activity parks like kidzania, lou lou al dagongs, magic planet etc. Now that Bilal is just entering his teens, its really difficult coz Eman being 9 still wants to do the same things while Bilal would prefer paint ball park or the bowling alley ! Now thats really a row between the two birthday boys.
Truth be told, its a celebration for me. I turned mom for the first time. All those beautiful and traumatic memories of their pregnancy and delivery come, flooding back on these days. Its really all too special for me coz these guys are exceptionally understanding, well behaved and just a whole bunch of fun to be around with. Ofcourse, there is that one guy who feels totally out of place coz his birthday falls in July ~ he is not made to feel special by his friends becoz schools out for summer holidays. And you see “FRIENDS” is what its all about !!!
Well, for Eman, these are the goody bags I made for his school.
For a couple of years, after Eman was born, when they didnt understand the concept of birthdays and such, I used to take the guys to meet this particularly special little chap who has been in Dubai Hospital from alittle after he was born and probably will stay there for the rest of his life. His name was Aboudi.
I was having a very complicated pregnancy with Eman. I was in my 6th month when they admitted me much against my wishes, for severe bleeding. Sawaab was just 9 months old while Bilal was around 3 years. Even now as I pass Dubai Hospital, I watch the 5th floor visitors lounge window and remember how helpless, I used to feel, knowing that both my babies were miles apart in the day and were having such a disturbed time in the evening. Those were such desperate times. Sam would struggle to keep some order in our lives between visiting me in the hospital and managing the babies. And then just as things could’nt have gone worse, Sawaab’s bronchitis devoloped into pneumonia. I remember being on the 5th floor pre-delivery ward while my baby was admitted on the second floor. What a rucous I created when I found out that evening !!! Inspite of my state, nothing in the world could hold me back from being with him. I suppose you call that a “maternal thing” but at that point, I just knew I wanted him just as much as he wanted me. What a huge fight I had with my consulting gyne to release me and release I did get !!!!!!
It was at that time, when I shifted on the 2nd floor to look after Sawaab that I saw little Aboudi. At that time, he must ave been around 3 years. Cerebral palsy. He was tied with bandages to the cot lest he harm himself. A fair child, drooling away with eyes that I felt were imploring. The nurses communicated with him and somehow he did make some movements to respond. A large part of the day we was sitting by the corner of his cot, watching and sometimes even made to sit of the stroller. He was a futile cause … he was another one of those, children of a lesser God. My heart ached when I saw him for the first time, I remember, hugging him and later crying away when I saw my own child. No one ever gave away any of this background until one day, one of Aboudi’s favorite attendents, who had become very attached to me told me that he was dropped off at the hospital emergency department by a driver late in the night. What a heartless mother or did I speak too soon ? No . . . . She was a heartless woman. To dump a 10 day old baby just becoz he was probably never going to be like all the other kids !!!!! Nobody claimed him. He was a waif. It breaks my heart to think, that no one in this whole world loves that little tiny boy with such a huge disease. No one even knew of his existence. No mother to comfort him, no one to hug him, embrace him with kisses upon kisses, no one to wipe his tears and fears. How cruel.
Aboudi made me realize that I had no pain at all. Aboudi gave me that first time feeling of what it feels like, to be in this world ALL ALONE with a huge handicap. The sisters in the ward treated him with affection and dignity and I am so grateful that they did not do it as a part of their job but for humanity.
For the next 3 years, I kept visiting Aboudi with my boys and some toys in hand. Until we moved to the Ranches and life took on a different pace all together. Often I have seen in documentaries and movies about orphans, abused children or such and my heart goes out to each one of them but Aboudi was the child who actually made me come face to face with that situation and I realized I was really no match for his spirit and resilience. I believe he has suffered tremendously but as if it is some solace, in the hereafter, he will be one of Allah swts blessed ones. Inshallah.
Amongst the many many things that Aboudi made me realize long back was also that birthdays, anniversaries are not for spending lavishly on parties but on fullfilling small and big dreams with those who matter the most to us. Spending in the way of the less fortunate, a hospital visit, a trip to the home of seniors and yes, also creating special memories with near and dear ones. Bilal has has only three friends through out the year and he wishes for them to somehow be a part of “his” day while Eman has an entire school which has been his “BEST” friend. Now isnt “that” a task !!
If you are interested in knowing about Aboudi’s present state, please do comment and I shall reply.
Last Wednesday was Manu’s annual sports day at Safa Park. He was so insistent that I attend, which I managed to easily skip for Bilal and sawaab. But not Manu. He insisted.
It was a very “happy” morning, with clouds looming and the rain had poured earlier that morning, so it smelled and looked so lush and green.
So anyways while I was finding parking, as usual late, I realized how rarely we, as a family visit parks. Maybe its coz we have a large and beautiful park right infront of our house or maybe, living in a “DESERT” region, we are now more acclamatised to the MALL culture. Which ever, I loved the experience. Met with some other fantastic moms and completly enjoyed the morning.
It also took me to some 19 years back, when i had first arrived in Dubai and my brothers family wanted to take me out to Safa Park being the ” IN THING” those days. I remember, how my sister in law had gone on, about how far it was from town. Ironically I now reside 3 times further and Safa Park almost seems right in city now 🙂
How a city has grown ! One thing peculier I noticed was the park has all of the trees, grown in this region. oh and what I meant by that was that, generally a park would have alot of palm trees but here they had all the different types of arabian trees.
I promised my self to bring everyone in the family for a proper traditional picnic to safa park one of these days, inshallah.
Enjoy the pics.
Today was Samie’s last vacation day and lo ! feeling so sad that he wont be enjoying the relaxation with us from tomorrow. This vacation although was the first where we were in Dubai but it was so much fun and calming. There were no obligations, no stress, no forced shopping, and definetly no early mornings !! It was truck loads of fun.
Sam arrived rather late after picking up Eman from school and before I knew it, there were heaps of presents he bought for all of us. Okay so let me start with me, he got me this marinade tray with board, a full set of knife set AND, AND AND ………. He also bought this really handy tool box. You see sam generally offers his salat in my studio and wonders how I manage to create anything in the middle of all the clutter and chaos in my studio. This nice man wanted to make it easy and get my space alittle organized so voila, what a lovely and thought ful gift.
Oh yeah, and the kids got something too, they love washing Sam and my car, but by the end of it, there are gallons upon gallons spend on the shower so he got them the pressure kit for washing the cars to make the chore fun and more economical for us.
Oh and how could he forget “the other” kids. Pepper has claimed the new catnip and cat scratch tray as his own. He has strongly placed it as not limit zone for poor Keiki.
There isnt a day that passes by when I dont thank my Allah for blessing me with the most compassionate and thoughtful man. I wanted to share the pictures with you’ll.
On the other hand, have you wondered why husbands come up with the most practical and productive gifts for their wives and where does all the romance disappear with chocolates and flowers ???
If I were one of em thankless women, I would be thinking there are vibes I am getting from these gifts like
” Lady. We need to eat more bbq meals !
” Get your chaos Organized. Woman !!
” Wash the car more often boys” !!
USE that scratching pad !!!!!
But thats just the humor in me .. have to have the last laugh now 🙂
A Very blessed year to all of you reading this post ! 2010 came with a mixed bag of fortunate and very unfortunate events like salt and pepper but finally we can put all that behind us and move forward.
To all those of you, feeling low right now, please remember, it could be worse. Please try to see where you are fortunate in so many other ways and dont despair your situation. There is so much more we should be thankful about. Good health would have to be right there on top of that list ! Loneliness is a dread but atleast being alive and in good health is better than being with selfish and calculating companions. Please friends, Keep the faith.
Well for me the last couple of weeks were total relaxation.
A couple a good news :
- I won the basic grey blog candy. Which was a first for me ! If you havent won anything yet or if you have won too, you know exactly how excieting it is winning something. Especially something you really like. It may be sometime before which I receive my prize though.
- I am cleared of my tumor which I was on treatment for over the last 6 months for. That is really “GREAT” news and a relief !!!
For the last decade we have spend every New Year eve in our home country but really felt so alienated and dependant on others becoz we really were there in our own country only as ‘visitors’ ! And finally this winter we are here and we spend the new years eve watching the fireworks at the super phenomenal Burj Khalifa ! It was just great ! Dubai was chilled cold last night. And just having the freedom to travel anywhere at any hour here, is so so great. We really are fortunate to be living in such a country without fear of carrying our national documents, or fear of being stolen, fear of not carrying enough eatables coz nearly all the petrol pumps have a fantastic grocer which is 24 hours. Counting small pleasures.
Here are just a couple of pictures of the celebration last night :
Here is a link to a fantastic site where I came across this particular list. I would recommend you visit them on this link for they have scores of excellent articles relating to Islam and Hadith, however you can also see the same list copied and pasted here as well.
Below, from a choice of hundreds of narrations from our beloved Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, you can find 100 hadiths , in no particular order of merit, detailing ways on exactly how to become the best, how to have the most excellent characteristics, what really will prove most beneficial for us to know, what really are the greatest things to think about and hope for and indeed, how to become the most beloved of people to our Magnificent Creator, Allah, the Most High. Muhammad, peace be upon him, told us:
1. “The best of the Muslims is he from whose hand and tongue the Muslims are safe.” [Muslim]
2. “The best of people are those with the most excellent character.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
3. “The best of people are those that bring most benefit to the rest of mankind.” [DÃ¢raqutni, Hasan]
4. “The best of people are those who are best in fulfilling [rights].” [Ibn MÃ¢jah, SahÃ®h]
5. “The best of people during fitnah is a man who takes up the reins of his horse pursuing the enemies of Allah, causing them fear yet they make him fearful too, or a man who secludes himself in the desert fulfilling the rights of Allah upon him.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
6. “The best of mankind is my generation, then those that follow them and then those that follow them. Then there shall come a people after them who will become avaricious, who will love gluttony, and who will give witness before they are asked for it.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
7. “The best of people are those who live longest and excel in their deeds, whereas the worst of people are those who live longest and corrupt their deeds.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
8. “The best of women are those that please him [her husband] when he sees her, obeys him when she is commanded, and who does not secretly betray him with regards to herself and her money in that which he dislikes.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
9. “The best of women are those that please you when you see them, obey you when commanded, and who safeguard themselves and your money in your absence.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
10. “The best of marriages are the easiest ones.” [Abu DÃ¢wÃ»d, SahÃ®h]
11. “The best of your dates is the BorniyyÃ» date; it expels disease yet does not contain any disease itself.” [HÃ¢kim, Hasan]
12. “The best of your garments are those which are white; shroud your dead in them and clothe your living with them. The best of that which you apply to your eyelids is antimony causing the eyelashes to grow and sharpening the eyesight.” [Ibn HibbÃ¢n, SahÃ®h]
13. “The best quality of your religion is scrupulousness.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
14. “The best of your religion is that which is easiest.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
15. “The best of the prayer lines for men are the first rows, the worst being the final rows. The best of the prayer lines for women are the final rows and the worst are the first rows.” [Muslim]
16. “The best prayers for women are those performed in the most secluded parts of their houses.” [Ibn Khuzaymah, SahÃ®h]
17. “The best of you in Islam are those who are most excellent in character as long as you deeply understand the religion.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
18. “The best of you are the best of you in fulfilling [rights].” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
19. “The best of you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
20. “The best of you are my generation, then those that follow them and then those that follow them. Then there shall come after them a people who will betray and be untrustworthy, will give witness even though they have not been asked to, will make vows yet will not fulfil them and obesity will appear amongst them.” [BukhÃ¢ri]
21. “The best of you are those who feed others and return greetings.” [Abu Ya’lÃ¢, Hasan]
22. “The best of you is he from whom good is anticipated and safety from his evil is assured; the worst of you is he from whom nothing good is expected and one is not safe from his evil.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
23. “The best thing mankind has been given is excellent character.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
24. “The best of that which you treat yourself with is cupping.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
25. “The best of journeys undertaken are to this Masjids of mine and the Ancient House.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
26. “The best of which man can leave behind for himself are three: a righteous child who supplicates for him, an ongoing charity whose reward continues to reach him and knowledge which others benefit from after him.” [Ibn HibbÃ¢n, Hasan]
27. “The best Mosques for women are the most secluded parts of their houses.” [Bayhaqi, SahÃ®h]
28. “The best of the world’s women are four: Maryum bint ‘ImrÃ¢n, KhadÃ®jah bint Khuwaylid, FÃ¢timah bint Muhammad and Ã‚siyah the wife of Fir’awn.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
29. “The best of days that you should perform cupping are the 17th, 19th and 21st of the month. I did not pass a single gathering of angels on the night of IsrÃ¢’ except that they would say to me, ‘O Muhammad, perform cupping!'” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
30. “The best day on which the Sun has risen is Friday; on it Ã‚dam was created, on it Ã‚dam was made to enter Paradise and on it he was expelled. The Hour will not be established except on Friday.” [Muslim]
31. “Verily, the best of perfume for men is that which is strong in smell and light in colour, and the best of perfume for women is that which is strong in colour and light in smell.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
32. “The most beloved of religions according to Allah the Most High is the ‘easy and flexible religion.'” [Ahmad, Hasan]
33. “The most beloved of deeds according to Allah are the continuous ones, even if they are little.” [Agreed upon]
34. “The most beloved of names according to Allah are ‘Abd Allah, ‘Abd’l-RahmÃ¢n and HÃ¢rith.” [Abu Ya’lÃ¢, SahÃ®h]
35.“The most beloved of deeds according to Allah are the prayer in its right time, then to treat the parents in an excellent manner, and then JihÃ¢d in the path of Allah.” [Agreed upon]
36. “The most beloved of deeds according to Allah is that you die and yet your tongue is still moist from the remembrance of Allah.” [Ibn HibbÃ¢n, Hasan]
37. “The most beloved words according to Allah the Most High are four: SubhÃ¢nallah, AlhamdulillÃ¢h, LÃ¢ ilÃ¢ha illallah and Allahu Akbar; there is no problem with which one you start with.” [Muslim]
38. “The most beloved of speech according to Allah is when the servant says, ‘SubhÃ¢nallahi wa bihamdihÃ®’ [How Transcendent is Allah and we praise him!].” [Muslim]
39. “The most beloved of speech according to Allah the Most High is that which Allah chose for his Angels: SubhÃ¢na RabbÃ® wa bihamdihÃ®, SubhÃ¢na RabbÃ® wa bihamdihÃ®, SubhÃ¢na RabbÃ® wa bihamdihÃ®.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
40. “The most beloved of people according to Allah is he who brings most benefit, and the most beloved of deeds according to Allah the Mighty, the Magnificent, is that you bring happiness to a fellow Muslim, or relieve him of distress, or pay off his debt or stave away hunger from him. It is more beloved to me that I walk with my brother Muslim in his time of need than I stay secluded in the mosque for a month. Whoever holds back his anger, Allah will cover his faults and whoever suppresses his fury while being able to execute it, Allah will fill his heart with satisfaction on the Day of Standing. Whoever walks with his brother Muslim in need until he establishes that for him, Allah will establish his feet firmly on the day when all feet shall slip. Indeed, bad character ruins deeds just as vinegar ruins honey.” [TabarÃ¢ni, Hasan]
41. “The most beloved of people to me is ‘Ã‚’ishah and from the men, Abu Bakr.” [Agreed upon]
42. “The best of people in recitation are those who when they recite, you see that they fear Allah.” [Bayhaqi, SahÃ®h]
43.Â “The best of your leaders are those that you love and they love you, you supplicate for them and they supplicate for you. The worst of your leaders are those that you hate and they hate you, you curse them and they curse you.”[Muslim]
44. “The best of you are those who are best in paying off their debts.” [TahÃ¢wi, SahÃ®h]
45. “The best of you are those with the longest lives and most excellent character.” [BazzÃ¢r, SahÃ®h]
46. “The best of you are those with the longest lives and best in action.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
47. “The best of you are those with the softest shoulders during prayer.” [Bayhaqi, Hasan]
48. “The best of you are those who are best to their wives.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
49. “The best of you are those who are best to their families.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
50. “The best of you during the ‘Period of Ignorance’ are the best of you in Islam as long as they deeply understand the religion.” [BukhÃ¢ri]
51. “The best of you are those who learn the Qur’Ã¢n and teach it.” [DÃ¢rimi, SahÃ®h]
52. “The best of companions according to Allah are those who are best to their companion and the best of neighbours according to Allah are those that are best to their neighbour.”[TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
53. “The best of places are the Mosques and the worst of places are the markets.”[TabarÃ¢ni, Hasan]
54. “The best supplication on the Day of ‘Arafah and the best thing that I and the Prophets before me ever said was, ‘LÃ¢ ilÃ¢ha illAllah wahdahÃ» lÃ¢ sharÃ®ka lahÃ», lahÃ»’l-mulk wa lahÃ»’l-hamd wa huwa ‘alÃ¢ kulli shay’in QadÃ®r.'” [TirmidhÃ®, Hasan]
55. “The best of provision is that which suffices.” [Ahmad in ‘Zuhd’, Hasan]
56. “The best testimony is when one gives it before he is asked to do so.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
57. “The best of dowries are the easiest.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
58. “The best of charity is that which still leaves you self-sufficient for the upper hand is better than the lower hand; start with those you are responsible for.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
59.Â “The best of gatherings are those that are most open.” [Abu DÃ¢wÃ»d, SahÃ®h]
60. “The most beloved deed according to Allah is to have faith in Allah, then to maintain the ties of kinship, and then to command to good and forbid the wrong. The most abhorrent of deeds according to Allah is to associate partners with Him, then to cut the ties of kinship.”[Abu Ya’lÃ¢, Hasan]
61. “The most beloved JihÃ¢d according to Allah is that a word of truth be spoken to a tyrant ruler.” [TabarÃ¢ni, Hasan]
62. “The most beloved word according to me is that which is most truthful.” [BukhÃ¢ri]
63. “The most beloved fast according to Allah is the fast of DÃ¢wÃ»d; he would fast every alternate day. The most beloved prayer according to Allah is the prayer of DÃ¢wÃ»d; he would sleep half the night, stand a third and then sleep for a sixth.” [Agreed upon]
64. “The most beloved dish according to Allah is that which most hands feed from.” [Ibn HibbÃ¢n, Hasan]
65. “The most beloved servant of Allah is he who is most beneficial to his dependents.”[ZawÃ¢’id al-Zuhd, Hasan]
66. “The best of earnings is that of the labourer as long as he tries his best.” [Ahmad, Hasan]
67. “The best of all deeds is to have faith in Allah alone, then JihÃ¢d and then an accepted Hajj; they surpass all other deeds like the distance between the rising and setting of the Sun.”[Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
68. “The best of all deeds is the Prayer at its earliest time.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
69. “The best of all deeds is the Prayer in its right time, to treat the Parents honourably and JihÃ¢d in the path of Allah.”[al-KhatÃ®b, SahÃ®h]
70. “The best of all deeds is that you bring happiness to your Muslim brother, pay off his debt or feed him bread.” [Ibn Adiyy, Hasan]
71. “The best of faith is patience and magnanimity.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
72. “The best of days according to Allah is Friday.” [Bayhaqi, SahÃ®h]
73. “The best of JihÃ¢d is that man strives against his soul and desires.” [Daylami, SahÃ®h]
74. “The best Hajj is that with the most raised voices and flowing blood.” [TirmidhÃ®, Hasan]
75. “The best of supplications is that of on the Day of ‘Arafah, and the best thing that was said by myself and the Prophets before me was, “LÃ¢ ilÃ¢ha illallah wahdahÃ» lÃ¢ sharÃ®ka lahÃ».” [There is nothing worthy of worship except Allah alone, He has no partners.” [MÃ¢lik, Hasan]
76. “The best of dinars are: the dinÃ¢r spent by a man upon his dependents, the dinÃ¢r spent by a man upon his horse in the path of Allah and the dinÃ¢r spent by a man upon his companions in the path of Allah, the Mighty, the Magnificent.”[Muslim]
77. “The best word of remembrance is: LÃ¢ ilÃ¢ha illallah and the best supplication is: AlhamdulillÃ¢h.” [TirmidhÃ®, Hasan]
78. “The best word of remembrance is: LÃ¢ ilÃ¢ha illallah and the best [expression of giving] thanks is: AlhamdulillÃ¢h.”[Baghawi, Hasan]
79. “The best of hours are those deep in the latter part of the night.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
80. “The best of all martyrs are those who fight in the front line; they do not turn their faces away until they are killed. They will be rolling around in the highest rooms of Paradise, their Lord laughing at them – when your Lord laughs at a servant, there is no accounting for him.”[Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
81. “The best of all martyrs is he whose blood is shed and whose horse is slaughtered.”[TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
82. “The best of all charity is the shade of a canopy [provided] in the path of Allah, the Mighty and Magnificent, to gift ones servant in the path of Allah and to gift ones she-camel in the path of Allah.” [Ahmad, Hasan]
83. “The best of all charity is that which is given to the relative that harbours enmity against you.” [Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
84. “The best of all charity is that you give it while you are healthy and desirous [of that money], hoping to become wealthy but fearing poverty. Don’t delay until you are about to breathe your last and then you say, ‘This is for ‘so and so’ and this is for ‘so and so”, for indeed, it has already been written that ‘so and so’ would receive that.” [Abu DÃ¢wÃ»d, SahÃ®h]
85. “The best of all charity is when the one with little strives to give; start with those you are responsible for.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
86. “The best charity is to provide water.” [Ibn MÃ¢jah, Hasan]
87. “The best prayer after the obligatory ones is the prayer in the depth of the night, and the best fast after the month of RamadhÃ¢n is the month of Allah, Muharram.” [Muslim]
88.“The best prayer is the prayer of the man in his home except for the obligatory prayer.”[NasÃ¢’Ã®, SahÃ®h]
89. “The best prayer is that with the longest standing.” [Muslim]
90. “The best of all prayers according to Allah is the Friday morning prayer in congregation.”[Ibn Nu’aym, SahÃ®h]
91. “The best fast is the fast of my brother DÃ¢wÃ»d; he would fast every alternate day and he would never flee [the battlefront] when the armies would meet.” [TirmidhÃ®, SahÃ®h]
92.Â “The best of all fasts after RamadhÃ¢n is in the month that you call Muharram.” [NasÃ¢’Ã®, SahÃ®h]
93. “The best of all worship is supplication.” [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
94. “The best deed is the prayer in its right time and JihÃ¢d in the path of Allah.” [Bayhaqi, SahÃ®h]
95. “The best of the Qur’Ã¢n is: “AlhamdulillÃ¢hi Rabb’l-‘Ã‚lamÃ®n”. [HÃ¢kim, SahÃ®h]
96. “The best of earnings is a blessed sale and that which a man earns with his hands.”[Ahmad, SahÃ®h]
97. “The best of the Believers is the most excellent of them in character.” [Ibn MÃ¢jah, SahÃ®h]
98. “The best of the Believers with respect to Islam is the one from whose hand and tongue the Muslims are safe; and the best of the Believers with respect to ÃŽmÃ¢n are the most excellent of them in character; and the best of those who migrate is he who migrates from that which Allah the Most High has prohibited; and the best of JihÃ¢d is when one strives against his soul for the sake of Allah, the Mighty, the Magnificent.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
99. “The best of mankind is the believer between two honourable persons.” [TabarÃ¢ni, SahÃ®h]
100. “The best of all days in the world are the ten days [of Dhul Hijjah].” [BazzÃ¢r, SahÃ®h]
Last 10 days, the boys and I have been absolutely sick to our throats, no literally ! It started with Sawaab and ended with me. Today Dr L, gave me a second course of antibiotics. I have been wheezing and it hurts like hell when I have this huge spasms of cough which feels like all my chest is pulling and hurting. So back to the nebulizer. Just finished with Augmentine 1gm and now I have started with Klassic. Its really a bad time. As if, the knee and my back ache were not enough !
Please make a small prayer that Allah heals me soon.
Talking of sickness, I wanted to know from the rest of you’ll, which do you think is the most important medical investment do, you think, you made for your kids ? … I mean, I’m not talking about medicines or medical insurance. Maybe something like a thermometer, or a blood pressure machine or a kidney tray or something else.
I think, almost 7 years back, I made the best medical investment I could have thought of at that time. Sawaab is not asthmatic, but he would get these bouts of cold accompanied by wheezing. At one stage, the doctor suggested that if we could, we should buy a nebulizer which would help him with wheezing. With those of you who are wondering “whats wheezing and whats a nebulizer ?
Well, generally phlem which clogs the throat over a period of time, might in some situations land up in the upper respirator tract, and cause breathing difficulty. There is a particular sound almost like a slow whistle which can be heard while the child or adult breaths. It can be accompanied by pain in the chest. Next question: Generally in the olden days, the doctors would have to give a patient oral medicines which when swolled, breaks up in the stomach and then reaches different parts of the body. A bronco syrup would help in dissolving the phelm in the throat. However a nebulizer is an excellent machine used for breathing with a mask. In most cases, Ventolin, is added to the machine and breathed in. The results are instant and phenomenal. However, one should be a little experienced in handling this machine. Why ?
1: becoz we are inhaling directly what ever is in the container of the machine, we have to be careful with the hygeine issues.
2: the medicine in the machine is going straight to the lung and heart in which case, we have to be careful with the quantity of medicine given, coz it can cause palpitation, in very few cases.
The nebulizer is given “ONLY” when recommended by the doctor. However as a mother, you learn to watch and understand the symptoms of your child over a period of time, and sometimes, When I am confident that it should be given rather than waiting over the weekend, before going to my pediatrician, I would just go ahead and do it.
Hope this little article helps some of you moms out there.
We’re having a 4 day long long loooooooooong weekend and We have been completely enjoying it. Its really very rare to get so many holidays one after the other. First Eid holidays and now the UAE National day weekend have really been stress relievers.
I dont think we are a very traditional or rather conventional family. I realized this truly when on Friday, I suggested that since the weather is so super fantastic, why dont we go to the beach and thats when It popped to me, that we havent had a beach visit or a park visit in like ……… forever. Maybe once when the boys were 4 or 5 ! Thats nearly 5 years back ! Why have we become such a tube family. Mom ~ tube, dad~ tube and kids~tube oriented.
Suddenly there was an urge .. a need to break the spell. Although We were getting a bit late, I decided that we just had to enjoy the cool waters. Some of these pictures speak volumes of the fun that we had this friday. It was such a bliss. Scores and scores of families were there. Some in the water, some playing with the kids, some without families, were just roaming around aimlessly. Probably remembering their families and hoping they were here to share the moment with them.
One thing I never understand about some particular arab states of the middle east is their need to always carry the foldable chairs and plonk themselves and their shishas to enjoy any scene. But the good thing about the locals and the GCC folks is that they would carry their beautiful carpets with them and gladly spread it over the sand and enjoy their macrona meals over it. Different people different likes.
When we were a young Indian family living the dream in Kuwait back in the 70s. We carried everything from tea flasks, to soap with us in our tiny japanese cars. I suppose thats where I get it from. I too have my Yukon stacked up with spare blankets, sheets, pillows, jackets, water and what have you ~ at any given time. So much has changed, we have achieved so much in terms of progress but quite a bit is lost too. Amongst one of those things is that we have lost interdependence. We are more nuclear now, we prefer to move around as a single family as opposed to how we “needed” to move around as a group of families, dining together as “middle class restaurants” ~ far far from the reach of today’s fast food restaurants, we found joy in sharing the hot homemade tea’s in thermos’s rather than hoping over to any one of the Eppco/Enoc fuel stations to grab a costa with some fuel ! All cars ran religiously behind one another and if one had a pit stop for the kids to answer the call of nature., everyone would wait coz there were no mobiles to communicate, remember ! And there were no bathrooms either 🙂
For the older folks, it must be quite a change and they must never end with lines like,” back in our days . . . . . . .”
I am fine with whatever, I dont miss much, I am happy as long as “WE” are happy and having fun. To be very honest, I think life is so much more convenient now compared to then when mom used to spend half the night preparing for the picnic and a large part of the early morning packing everything. It must’ave been so stressful but the women folk would do it ~ they’d do it for the family. If anyone has seen the movie “NAMESAKE” He understands what I mean and if you have not seen this movie, then grab a copy of the dvd at the earliest.
I broke the spell and absolutely enjoyed running, collecting shells, making a complete utter mess in the mud fight, making sand angels and just generally swimming around freely in the beautiful beach.
By the time, the boys were ready to leave, it was nearly dusk and what a spectacular view we got, on one end, stood the gorgeous Burj Al Arab, and behind us was the magnificient Burj Khalifa. The shots, I got, are nothing short of amazing.