Guard your modesty ~ oh muslimah.

I hear sisters who don’t wear hijab, but feel they are better than the sisters who do wear hijab, but with make up, tight clothes, hair showing etc ~ to them I say, follow what your Allah has ordered you to do first.  Dress how he has asked you to, cover your aura how he has instructed you, and leave the judging to Him, for HE alone, has the right to judge anyone. Do not use this cause, as an excuse so as not to embrace a part of the muslimah’s identity.

Remember, shaitaan lurks around every muslimah ever so zestfully … His ultimate goal is to lure her into sin. The graver the sin, the more the reward for him.

For sisters, who wish to embrace the hijab but have been fighting their own little battle between, pleasing the world and pleasing Allah ~ encourage them.  May they find peace in the path chosen by Allah for them. Ameen

For sisters, who are drifting (just like the sister in the below video) ~ make dua, lots of dua, that Allah swt makes her nafs stronger than the whispers of the wretched shaitaan.

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Male friends after marriage ?

Tirmidhi 3118:

Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third.

Hadith – Al-Tirmidhi.

Do not call on women in the absence of their husbands, because Shaitan might be circulating in you like blood circulates

Hadith – Fath-al-Qadir

The one who touches the hand of a woman without having a lawful relation with her, will have an ember (hot coal) placed on his palm on the Day of Judgement

If you cannot meet a woman without mahram, shake hands with her, be alone with her,  look at her (since you’re required to lower your gaze)

then how is this friendship going to form?

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As far as friendship on internet is concerned just reason logically about it. Would a husband appreciate that his wife has a ‘close’ male friend besides him? Or would a wife appreciate that when the husband has a argument with her, he goes to his best friend to discuss the matter as opposed to making it up to her?

It leads to comparison between spouse as a friend and the close friend. This can cause problems in their married life. A friend who meets you only sometimes will always meet you with a smile (even on internet) but the spouse is living with you 24/7. There are more chances of conflicts and it requires patience and understanding to survive the relationship.

This can be hard to understand when you can see the other opposite gender being nice to you while your spouse isn’t as sweet most of the time.

Had it been permissible Sahaba’s and Prophets would become friends with women. But at least I do not know of Prophet (P.B.U.H) having female friends or any of the sahaba’s having them or any other scholar of Islam having it. Which makes it obvious it is not allowed in Islam.

 

Dont let him win !!

A man woke up early in order to Pray the Fajr Prayer in the masjid. He got dressed, made his ablution and was on his way to the masjid.

 On his way to the masjid, the man fell and his clothes got dirty. He got up, brushed himself off, and headed home.

 At home, He changed His Clothes, made his ablution, and was, again, on his way to the masjid.

On his way to the masjid, He Fell again and at the Same Spot! He, again, got up, brushed himself off and headed home.

 At home he, once again, Changed His Clothes, made his ablution and was on his way to the masjid.

 On his way to the masjid, He Met a Man Holding a Lamp. He asked the man of his identity and the man replied

‘I Saw You Fall Twice on your way to the masjid, So I Brought a Lamp so I can Light Your Way.’

 The first man thanked him profusively and the two where on their way to the masjid. Once at the masjid, the first man asked the man with the lamp to come in and pray Fajr with him. The second man refused. The first man asked him a couple more times and, again, the answer was the same. The first man asked him why he did not wish to come in and pray.

The man replied  ” I am Shetaan(devil/ evil) ” The man was shocked at this reply. Shetan went on to explain,

‘I saw you on your way to the masjid and it was I who made you fall. When you went home, cleaned yourself and went back on your way to the masjid, Allah forgave all of your sins.  I made you fall a second time, and even that did not encourage you to stay home, but rather, you went back on your way to the masjid. Because of that, Allah forgave all the sins of the people of your household . I was AFRAID if i made you fall one more time, then Allah will forgive the sins of the people of your village, so I made sure that you reached the masjid safely..’

 So do not let Shetan benefit from his actions. Do not put off a good that you intended to do as you never know how much reward you might receive from the hardships you encounter while trying to achieve that good.

 May Allah (Subhana Ho Wataallah) grant us a perfect Muslim Heart n we all do Prayers with our Heart and Soul… Ameen

A Complete Religion ~ Islam.

READ THIS DUAA FOR BETTER LIFE

Allahumma- inni-ala-Zikr-ika-wa Shuk-rika-wa-husni-ibad-atika.

There is no word as beautiful as Allah.
No example as beautiful as Rasulallah(SAW).
No lesson as beautiful as Islam
No song as melodious as Azan.
No charity as meaningful as Zakat.
No encyclopedia as perfect as Al-Quran.
No prayer as perfect as Namaz.
No diet as perfect as fasting.
No journey as perfect as Hajj.

It is said that when the angel of death is taking the rooh (soul) out of the body of who passes away….it is the most painful experience.

They say that when the dead awake on Qayaamat, the effect of the rooh being taken out will still be there.

Therefore, ALLAH has told us to recite the Ayatul-Kursi after every Farz salaat and it is stated that whoever recites this, their rooh will be taken out as you would take out a strand of hair from a pile of flour. How light would that feel, MashaAllah!

May Allah save us from any sort of pain and may He let us die with Imaan in our hearts and save us from the Azaab. Aameen.

A common “MISTAKE” that we do very often these days is that we talk during Azaan.  

The Holy Prophet(SAW) said, Stop doing everything during the Azaan, even reading the Quran, the person who talks during the Azaan will not be able to say the Kalimah-e-Shahadat on his/her death bed….
That is how severely wrong it is to disrespect the call of Azaan, which we take very casually. Please let us remind ourselves, our children, family members, relatives and muslim friends and neigbours of this fact.

When in Dubai, what do they think ?

What is wrong with the western people coming to Dubai these past couple of years ???  In the past couple of months, a few very absurd stories have surfaced and it is really shocking how people’s attitude are not only racist but they are swimming in their superiority complex !!

First there was the case of a Brit female who was sleeping around with her boyfriend, while married and had kids !! The arab husband asked for divorse and she went howling for sympathy coz she would then be left without the kids !  Ofcourse had she had a non arab husband, the story would have had a very different outcome !  

Then there’s the recent case of Sally Antia, who had been seeing her boyfriend who came from Britian to spend a week or so with her in a hotel.  She was caught leaving the hotel room with her “lover” after the husband informed the police about it.

British DJ Chris Tyrant was another case of infidelity that too for 10 years !!!

Do all these people not realize this is a Muslim country with Musllim Laws.   Laws which dont ” have to ” accept such nonsense and thank God for that !!

In the west, two people stay together for years without tying  the knot, she sees other fellas, he sees other girls and when she turns pregnant, everyone’s wondering who the child belongs to !!

Thats one of the reasons, CHEATERS the reality show program is so sucessful, becoz the new breed is so non-dependable. The world is going in a shockingly sick state there :  Men with men, women with women, men with more than one women whom they have little to no respect for, moreover the women abuse in that part of the world is horrendously high !

I dont blame men. I dont blame women per se. I blame,  as always,  the parents. If parents gave children a sound unbringing, advising them, guiding them, being a real part of their lives and not just spend “QUALITY TIME” , and most importantly, being an example to them. It WOULD make all the difference. Parents have spend more time finding reasons to split than placing some effort in making things work together. ” We’re not meant to be ” is the simple answer  to a complicated relationship that either partner did not try and salvage. Few try but most dont even want to try.     

The moms have been so career orientated, SO focused on her selfish needs, her identity is so self absorbing for her, and thats been a whole big chunky part of her life, so whats the child going to pick after??

Dr Phil’s program is an eye opener for so many unfortunate and deformed relationships in US.  Adultry happens every where, in every country, every city. I agree. Whats wrong :  is for a society to justify it and let it become a part of the system. Thats wrong. It is not and should not be accepted. 

After Sally’s case was published in the news paper, a few days later, two women wrote in to the newspaper feeling sorry for the kids and saying they felt, the husband went too far !!!!!! HELLO ??????? I mean, what would you do if your husband was cheating ? 

Sally does not want her kids to see her in the jail coz she is worried what they may feel.  What and why did she not think of them while she was enjoying herself ?  Did she not think of the repercussions on her children then ????  The forbidden fruit is more sweet and he who has it, pays dearly for it !!  I mean, its so unfair, to ask sympathy and pity all in the name of her children.  Imagine how those kids must feel if they are school going.  She’s pathetic. She is the one responsible for ruining a family and a tender childhood.

Are none of the vows these people make REAL ? Dont they mean ANYTHING at all  ?  

I wish I could have an ounce of sympathy for her or the likes of her, but I dont. I feel she deserves exactly what she got.

This is a Muslim country and this is how the Law is here. Accept it or feel free to leave.   

Dubai gives its expat population a balanced way of living. You may practise your traditions, cultures, religions, etc. This is a tax free country with all world class facilities, yet, it is unfortunate that the recent influx of Westerners, have a tendency to do wrong and justify their wrong-doings. And in doing so, they love to mock at the Muslim rules and regulations. Its shame on them.

When a muslim man marries more that one woman,( he is allowed a maximum of 4 at a time) he is responsible for each of his wives and each of their children. Even in case of divorce, He pays childcare. He “has to” know who his liabilities are. And the law gives the women the right to ask for their rights.

However in the west, people prefer to change partners like undergarments and not only causes diseases like HIV Aids but also unwanted pregnancies and zero security and respect in life.

These people who indulge in adultery are selfish and self centered people. They see their needs and wants and dump their families right underneath their desires. Its unfair, how can anyone have any sympathy for them.

Author : Kate Rameez