What is wrong with the western people coming to Dubai these past couple of years ??? In the past couple of months, a few very absurd stories have surfaced and it is really shocking how people’s attitude are not only racist but they are swimming in their superiority complex !!
First there was the case of a Brit female who was sleeping around with her boyfriend, while married and had kids !! The arab husband asked for divorse and she went howling for sympathy coz she would then be left without the kids ! Ofcourse had she had a non arab husband, the story would have had a very different outcome !
Then there’s the recent case of Sally Antia, who had been seeing her boyfriend who came from Britian to spend a week or so with her in a hotel. She was caught leaving the hotel room with her “lover” after the husband informed the police about it.
British DJ Chris Tyrant was another case of infidelity that too for 10 years !!!
Do all these people not realize this is a Muslim country with Musllim Laws. Laws which dont ” have to ” accept such nonsense and thank God for that !!
In the west, two people stay together for years without tying the knot, she sees other fellas, he sees other girls and when she turns pregnant, everyone’s wondering who the child belongs to !!
Thats one of the reasons, CHEATERS the reality show program is so sucessful, becoz the new breed is so non-dependable. The world is going in a shockingly sick state there : Men with men, women with women, men with more than one women whom they have little to no respect for, moreover the women abuse in that part of the world is horrendously high !
I dont blame men. I dont blame women per se. I blame, as always, the parents. If parents gave children a sound unbringing, advising them, guiding them, being a real part of their lives and not just spend “QUALITY TIME” , and most importantly, being an example to them. It WOULD make all the difference. Parents have spend more time finding reasons to split than placing some effort in making things work together. ” We’re not meant to be ” is the simple answer to a complicated relationship that either partner did not try and salvage. Few try but most dont even want to try.
The moms have been so career orientated, SO focused on her selfish needs, her identity is so self absorbing for her, and thats been a whole big chunky part of her life, so whats the child going to pick after??
Dr Phil’s program is an eye opener for so many unfortunate and deformed relationships in US. Adultry happens every where, in every country, every city. I agree. Whats wrong : is for a society to justify it and let it become a part of the system. Thats wrong. It is not and should not be accepted.
After Sally’s case was published in the news paper, a few days later, two women wrote in to the newspaper feeling sorry for the kids and saying they felt, the husband went too far !!!!!! HELLO ??????? I mean, what would you do if your husband was cheating ?
Sally does not want her kids to see her in the jail coz she is worried what they may feel. What and why did she not think of them while she was enjoying herself ? Did she not think of the repercussions on her children then ???? The forbidden fruit is more sweet and he who has it, pays dearly for it !! I mean, its so unfair, to ask sympathy and pity all in the name of her children. Imagine how those kids must feel if they are school going. She’s pathetic. She is the one responsible for ruining a family and a tender childhood.
Are none of the vows these people make REAL ? Dont they mean ANYTHING at all ?
I wish I could have an ounce of sympathy for her or the likes of her, but I dont. I feel she deserves exactly what she got.
This is a Muslim country and this is how the Law is here. Accept it or feel free to leave.
Dubai gives its expat population a balanced way of living. You may practise your traditions, cultures, religions, etc. This is a tax free country with all world class facilities, yet, it is unfortunate that the recent influx of Westerners, have a tendency to do wrong and justify their wrong-doings. And in doing so, they love to mock at the Muslim rules and regulations. Its shame on them.
When a muslim man marries more that one woman,( he is allowed a maximum of 4 at a time) he is responsible for each of his wives and each of their children. Even in case of divorce, He pays childcare. He “has to” know who his liabilities are. And the law gives the women the right to ask for their rights.
However in the west, people prefer to change partners like undergarments and not only causes diseases like HIV Aids but also unwanted pregnancies and zero security and respect in life.
These people who indulge in adultery are selfish and self centered people. They see their needs and wants and dump their families right underneath their desires. Its unfair, how can anyone have any sympathy for them.
Author : Kate Rameez