Trade in Proposal/Marriage.

Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported that Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) prohibited Shighar. Ibn Numair added: Shighar means that a person should say to the other person: Give me the hand of your daughter in marriage and I will (in return) marry my daughter to you; or marry me your sister, and I will marry my sister to you. (Muslim Book 8, Number 3299)

¬†What an interesting Hadith Masha’Allah ūüôā

It has been stated so many times that the Prophet never spoke unnecessarily but when he spoke he was careful in what he said and there was a definete reason to why he said what he said.  Subhanallah. 

Please know that the below is my point of view on this matter and not quoted by any scholar.

I found this concept of trade in marriage unusal but not unheard of, especially in India and Pakistan, where it is still practised although not often. In my point of view, it can become quite a complicated issue before and after the marriage. Therefore best avoided.

For obvious reasons such as if one marriage is not working out they treat the other couple the same …i.e. forced to divorce and the reason will be the other couple did not work out. Even if they are not forced to divorce, imagine how uncomfortable and awkward a wife feels if she sees her sister in law brooding in her household due to the misunderstandings/hardships/incompatibilities caused by her own brother !!!

If the rasool has prohibited this trade in, then so be it. Hope it helps us to wake up and advise our neighbours, relatives and muslim friends that this should not be practised if they are,  due to ignorance. Please advise your near ones.

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Jannah ~ Paradise.

Dear Brothers and sisters,

When MOMIN will enter into Jannat, it will be announced

 1) You will remain healthy forever, disease will never come.

 2) You will remain alive for ever, death will never come.

3) You will remain in bounties which will never be finished.

 Jannat is made with: Bricks of Gold and Silver

 Its cement is of perfumed Musk

Its chips are pearls and Yaqoot

Its sand is Zafraan

¬†There are eight doors of Jannat…

 These are eight grades of Jannat:

1. Jannatul Mava

2.. Darul Maqaam

3. Darul Salaam

4. Darul Khuld

5. Jannat-ul-Adan

6. Jannat-ul-Naeem

7. Jannat-ul-Kasif

8. Jannat-ul-Firdous Jannatul Mava is in the lowest, Jannat-ul-Adan is the middle & Jannat-ul- Firdous is on the highest.

Food of Jannat:

They will eat foods and fruits continuously up to 40 years

Every bowl will have a new taste

They will take eructation which will digest the food and there will be perfumed sweating for the digestion of water

There will be no urine and stool

Place Name: There will be gardens in Jannat.

Every garden will have the length of about 100 year ‘ s journey.

The shadow of these gardens will be very dense.

 Their plants will be free of thorns.

 The size of their leaves will be equal to ears of elephants.

Their fruits will be hanging in rows.

Those who love each other for the sake of Allah will get a pillar of Yaqoot, on which there will be seventy thousand (70,000) rooms. These will shine for the residents of Jannat as the sun shines for the residents of Duniya

There will be rooms in Jannat in such a way that every room will have seventy thousand (70,000) dinning sheets. On every dinning sheet 70,000 types of foods will be served. For their service 80,000 young boys will be moving around looking like beautiful scattered pearls.

One bunch of dates will be equal to the length of 12 arms. The size of a date will be equal to the big pitcher. These will be whiter than milk, sweeter than honey and softer than butter and free of seeds. The stem of these plants will be made up of gold and silver.

There will also be gardens of grapes. The bunches of grapes will be very big. The size of a single grape will be equal to a big pitcher.

Someone asked, ya Rasulullah (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam): will it be sufficient for me and my family. It was answered, it will be sufficient for you and your whole tribe.

The Dresses of Jannat: The dress of Jannat will be very beautiful..

One will wear 70 dresses at a time. These will be very fine, delicate, weightless, having different colors. These dresses will be so fine that the body even the heart will be visible. And the waves of love in the hearts will also be visible. These dresses will never become old, never be dirty and will never tear.

There will be four canals in every Jannat:

1. Water. 2. Milk. 3…. Honey. 4. Sharabun Tahoora.

 There will also be three fountains in Jannat:

 1. Kafoor. 2. Zanjabeel. 3. Tasneem.

Qualities of People of Jannat:

In Jannat, Height of every MOMIN, will be equal to the height of Hazrat Adam (Alaihissalaam) 60 arms (90 feet).

 Beauty will be like that of Hazrat Yousuf (Alaihissalaam)

Age of youth will be like that of Hazrat Esa (Alaihissalaam) 30-33 years).

Sweetness of voice will be like that of Hazrat Dawud (Alaihissalaam) ..

Tolerance will be like that of Hazrat Yaqoob (Alaihissalaam) .

Patience will be like that of Hazrat Ayyub (Alaihissalaam) ..

Habits will be like that of Sayyaduna Muhammad (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam).

NOTE: If a person makes Du ‘ a for Jannat three times, Jannat requests Allah that O, Allah; make his entry into Jannat. And if a person makes Du ‘ a for safety from Jahannum three times, The Jahannnum requests Allah that, O, Allah; save him from Jahannum.

You can copy and paste this and pass on to as many friends and relatives and may Allah grant the entire Ummah of Nabi sallalahu alayhi wasallam Jannat ul Firdous Ameen!

Please remember ”¬†Every good act is charity”.